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Who Are You REALLY Coaching?

Who Are You REALLY Coaching?

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Matt Dumouchelle
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Coaches — who are we really bragging about?

I meet a lot of coaches who are quick to say:
“I coached so-and-so when they were 12… now they’re a pro.”

That’s great.

And not every coach will ever have that opportunity.

But there are two things worth remembering:
1️⃣ You didn’t get them there alone.
They got there through years of work — with the help of coaches, family, teammates, and support systems along the way.

2️⃣ They weren’t the only player you coached.
You had 15–20 other kids on that team who didn’t become pros.

What did they learn from you?

Your legacy as a coach isn’t defined by the one athlete who made it. It’s defined by everyone else.

The real evaluation of a coach isn’t:
• How many elite athletes you produced
• How many championships you won
• How many banners hang in the rink or gym

It’s:
• How many life lessons did you teach?
• How many kids left your team more confident than when they arrived?
• How many players still carry your words with them years later?
• How many people would say, “That was the best coach I ever had.”

At some point…
The banners fade.
The trophies collect dust.
The stats get forgotten.

But the impact you make on a young person?

That stays with them every single day.

Coaches — what do you want to be remembered for?

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