Great coach learning from March Madness! Here is one.

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The clip reminded me of a years ago, exercise I used when coaching Junior.

I noticed a number of players had a poor perception and lacked confidence in self.  Others had a poor perception, and lacked confidence in their teammates. I thought it important to intervene.

I introduced "Confidence Cards".

On the next road trip, on the bus, I had my leadership group pass out cue cards and pens.

Before we left, I had added each player's name and number to the centre of the cards using a fine tipped sharpie.

I asked the players to pass the cards around so that each and every player had an opportunity to add a constructive and positive comment on the card about who was identified on the card. I also added myself and my assistant coaches.

What resulted was astounding.

The confidence cards immediately drew players together. Some players discussed what they liked about teammates with others while some found a quite spot and reflected on each guy and his position.

All described in a brief phrase or cleverly selected word qualities that they admired and respected in others and added what value each player made to the team!

When the cards were returned and then shared with each player and coach for them to keep, spines stiffened, smiles and gratitude was observed and dare I say, a few prideful tears were seen.

As coach Calapari mentioned, "We all have doubts." and we all need reminders of what qualities, abilities we have and can contribute. We also need to be reminded to stay in the journey and appreciate the ride we are on.

Incidently, as the Playoffs progressed I noticed in one key game that our Goaltender kept looking at his blocker hand. Thinking he was injured, on a stoppage, I motioned for him to skate to the bench. I asked, "What are you looking at?", "Are you hurt?". His reply, "No, coach...I'm looking at my confidence card!"