The Mental Side Is Trainable.

The Mental Side Is Trainable.

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Every summer, the same conversation happens in clubs across all major leagues. A signing has been made. The contract is in, the press release is out, and somewhere in the building a coach is being asked how to get the player ready for October.

The answer that comes back is almost always the same. More ice. More gym. More video. More walkthroughs. More of what already exists, scaled up to absorb a player who has not yet arrived.

 

Three months later, that player is struggling. Not in the way the staff predicted. The skating is fine. The conditioning is fine. What broke was something nobody put on a development plan, because nobody believed it belonged there.

 

A senior signing rarely fails because the player lacked talent. He has been somebody's best forward for ten years. He fails because the part of him that was always going to be tested first — his mental resilience, his coachability, his adaptability — was treated as personality instead of development. As something he either had or did not. As something the coaching staff hoped for rather than built.

 

This is the part most clubs get wrong, and it is the part that has to change.

 

Mental resilience is trainable. Coachability is trainable. Adaptability is trainable. None of these are character traits the player walks in with and the club has to work around. They are skills, with mechanisms underneath them, with hours that build them and hours that erode them. And the first place this fact has to live is on the player's preparation plan, in writing, before the season starts.

 

This is where two seats in the same building have to start seeing the same picture.

 

From a Sporting Director's chair, the question is no longer whether the staff is doing enough hours. It is what those hours are supposed to build, and how the club will know they built it. A development plan that lists volume is not a development plan. It is a schedule. The plan being approved has to name what each block of work is for. Resilience under load. Decision-making under correction. Identity-stretch under unfamiliar role demand. If those words are not on the page, the staff is loading the body and hoping the rest takes care of itself. It will not. A signing that fails in December was failing in July. The hours were already wrong.

From the player's chair, the picture is different and more personal. He arrives carrying a game that has worked for a decade. He has been signed because of who he is. He is also being asked to play a different game, in a different language, inside a building where he does not yet know who to trust. He has to survive two things at once. His own game — the part of him that got him here. And the team's game — the part of him that has to be built new. Nobody has explained to him that the second one is going to feel uncomfortable for reasons that are not his fault. So he assumes weakness when he struggles. He hides what he should be naming. He treats a development gap as a character flaw.

 

The most useful thing a coach can say in week one is the simplest. We are going to train your mental side the same way we train your skating. It is not a test of who you are. It is a development area, with sessions, with feedback, with progression. You will be uncomfortable on purpose. That is the work.

Once that is said out loud, the hours change shape.

Hours that build mental resilience stop being motivational language and start being design. Sessions where the player has to reset under pressure after a deliberate failure. Post-game conversations that go past tactics into how the player actually felt and what he did with that feeling in the next shift. Pre-shift routines built into existing training, not bolted on as a workshop nobody returns to. The question the staff has to ask, every week, is whether the hours are downloading resilience into the player or downloading fatigue.

Hours that build coachability stop being passive and start being curious. Short, structured debriefs after every session. Time for the player to formulate questions before he is asked them. Drills where he has to explain why he made a decision, not just whether the puck went in. The player who arrives in October asking what the staff is seeing that he is not, is a player whose previous environment built that habit into him. The player who arrives defending every choice was trained out of curiosity by his last building. Either way, the new club inherits the habit and has to either reinforce it or replace it. That is a coaching decision, not an accident.

Hours that build adaptability stop being repetition and start being stretch. Different shift lengths. Different defensive demands. Roles he has not played in years. An honest, named conversation about which parts of his identity travel and which parts have to be left behind for the season ahead. Without those hours, the staff finds out in November what should have been worked on in July — and the player finds out alone, on the ice, under lights.

 

None of this is a preseason project.

 

This is where most clubs lose the thread. The mental side is treated as something to install in August and rely on through April. It does not work that way. The competitive season is where resilience, coachability, and adaptability are tested. It is also where they are built. The staff who runs the same internal conversation in October that they ran in July, who debriefs the same way in February as they did in week three, who keeps the player's mental development on the plan when results are good and when results are bad — that staff is the one whose signing still looks right in March.

 

For a Sporting Director, the discipline is to keep asking through the season what was asked in July. Not how the player is performing. What the hours are still building.

For the player, the discipline is to keep treating his mental side as a trained capacity, not a verdict on who he is.

For the coach, the discipline is to keep saying, out loud, that the work continues.

 

This is the difference between a forgettable import season and a player who defines one. Not more hours. Hours that know what they are for, named on a plan, trained through October and beyond, owned by both the chair upstairs and the man on the ice.

 

Magnus Ågren

Performance and Leadership Development · Consultant · SHL - NL - DEL

Thirty years in elite sport. Seven seasons as Head of Performance and Medical in the Swedish Hockey League. Olympic cycles since Sydney 2000. Designs the systems that integrate coaching, medical, and sports science into one performance structure.

www.magnusagren.com

People. Purpose. Performance.






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